Change · A daily tip

Accept The Grief Of Growth

Even good change carries loss, of comfort, of certainty, of who you used to be, and that grief is real. Allowing yourself to feel it, rather than insisting growth should feel only good, lets you move forward without secretly holding back.

Do this today

Give yourself permission to feel sad about a change even if it's a good one.

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In the same spirit

Lines that go with it

You don't need a new self, just a next choice.
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You can want the new thing and still have nothing left to begin it today.
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You are allowed to want a different life than the one you built.
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